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Written By Katherin Scott

Katherin Scott MA is a dating coach, speaker and author of “ABC’s of Dating: Simple Strategies for Dating Success.” As an internationally recognized authority on dating and attracting love , Katherin coaches singles worldwide and regularly conducts seminars and workshops to help people empower themselves to find love and happiness. Relationship Coaching Institute’s Relationship Assessment is an insightful ten question quiz used to determine a person’s readiness for dating and ultimately for committing to a life partner relationship .

If you’re single and looking for love , use the following ten statements to honestly assess your relationship readiness then take the necessary action to allow love to flow into your life.

1. I know what I want

Do you have a clear vision for your life? Do you know exactly what an amazing relationship looks for you? Take the time to understand your purpose in life, your goals for a happy and satisfying life and for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Get clear about what really matters to you. A clear vision will help propel you and continue to motivate you as your life develops.

2. I know my requirements

As a dating coach, I have many opportunities to ask singles what qualities they’re looking for in a life partner and what’s most important for them in a relationship. Most singles tell me quickly they’re very picky about the person they will ultimately choose to spend the rest of their life with. Yet when I press for specifics, they soon realize they haven’t actually spent much time getting clear about what’s most important for them in a relationship.

Non-negotiable requirements, your must-have’s for relationship success, are crucial to clarify and define. And, these are different from your wants and desires from your partner. If your requirements in a relationship go unmet, the relationship will suffer and so will you.

Create a written list of the five to ten requirements that are crucial for you for a healthy and successful relationship. Clearly define each requirement, in detail. Use this list to help screen potential partners as you date.

3. I am happy and successful being single

A life partner adds value to your life. And having someone to share life up’s and down’s with is very rewarding. Yet, there’s a big difference between being alone and being lonely.

Happy, successful singles enjoy their life, their family, their work and friends. Yes, they still may want a life partner, but not having someone special in their life doesn’t create desperation for them. Enjoy a rich and satisfying life while you’re searching for your mate and you’ll be more ly to attract a -minded single as a partner.

4. I am ready and available for commitment

Take the necessary time ...

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