Divorce Mediators Denver CO

Local resource for divorce mediators in Denver. Includes detailed information on local mediators that provide access to divorce mediation services that cover such topics as child support, child custody settlements, fair divorce solutions, divorce agreements, and family law consultations, as well as advice and content on finding good divorce mediators.

Daniel A Sweetser
303-321-3575
1741 HIGH ST
DENVER, CO
Cynthia E Brewster
303-945-3599
1623 Washington Street
Denver, CO
Judith F Tartaglia
303-592-6600
1775 Sherman Street, Ste 2100
Denver, CO
John S Holt
303-308-8191
2009 MARKET ST
DENVER, CO
William Lee Senter
303-320-0509
1700 BROADWAY STE 1700
DENVER, CO
Casey Frank
303-202-7007
1357 WILLIAMS ST APT 307
DENVER, CO
Eric Paul Ruderman
303-861-1444
1536 OGDEN ST
DENVER, CO
Geoffrey S Race
303-830-1212
1700 Broadway, Suite 1020
Denver, CO
Julie E Haines
303-825-3700
633 17TH ST STE 2200
DENVER, CO
Ivan P Koves
303-295-8223
555 17th Street, Ste. 3200
Denver, CO
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Avoiding the Well-Meaning Stranger

Avoiding the Well-Meaning Stranger

written by Jim Duzak |

Jim Duzak I mean no disrespect to family court judges , but if you’re getting divorced and you choose to litigate your case, you’re allowing a well-meaning stranger to decide your fate. The judge assigned to your case is not going to get to know you as a person. The judge is not going to come out to your house and watch you interact with your kids, or walk through each room and make an inventory of your property. The judge is not going to let you get on the witness stand and give a long, angry speech about every offense your spouse has committed over the past twenty years. He or she is simply going to take testimony and review documents on the issues you and your spouse can’t resolve voluntarily, and then hand down a decision that will probably disappoint both of you.

Nowadays, judges are under pressure to “manage” their cases efficiently, which often means getting them completed with only the bare minimum of trial time. As a lawyer, I rarely, if ever, saw a judge cut corners so severely that crucial testimony was disallowed. But I heard numerous divorce litigants express their frustration that they didn’t get to tell their story completely, or that the judge never really understood the facts of their particular case. The truth is, the litigation process, for all its merits, is not well-suited to family law.

Fortunately, there is a cost-effective and widely-available substitute for divorce litigation : divorce mediation. Mediation allows the parties (the husband and wife), with the help of a neutral third person (the mediator), to come up with settlement terms that are individualized to their particular needs and circumstances. Unless the mediated agreement is contrary to the welfare of any children involved, or attempts to circumvent child-support laws or guidelines, or was the result of fraud or intimidation, the court will normally approve it. (And an experienced mediator will almost always know when a proposed agreement won’t pass judicial muster).

Mediation can produce results that may make perfect sense to the parties, but which a judge probably wouldn’t order. For example, a wife in a short-term marriage may not be entitled to alimony under the laws of her state, but in mediation her husband might voluntarily offer to pay alimony in return for her dropping any claim on a vacation house they purchased together, a house that she never really liked but which he may want to have as a retirement home. Or the parties may agree to divide furniture and other personal property in a way that reflects sentimental value rather than monetary value. Or they may agree to leave each of their pension plans intact, but give a bigger share of the bank accounts to the spouse with the smaller pension.

In general, judges are not going to painstakingly construct a decision that somehow balances sentimental value versus monetary value, or tries to anticipate the parties’ long-term needs and interes...

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