written by Sue Susskind |  

Many individuals are finding themselves stepping into the role of caregivers for aging loved ones. This task becomes even more daunting when the individual in need of your care lives a significant distance away from you. It is difficult enough to juggle responsibilities that come from work and your own immediate family , and then trying to bridge the gap to assist with a distant loved one in need can sometimes become physically and emotionally overwhelming. It is easy to become frustrated when the demands become so great, but here are some important tips that may help when you find yourself in this position.

The first step you need to take is to decide exactly what your loved ones actual needs are. Gather other family members and friends together when having this discussion, as they may be able to provide vital information, especially if they live closer than you do. Talk to the professionals involved in the care of your loved one, such as doctors, social workers, and physical therapists. By gathering this information, you will be able to have a clearer picture of what the true needs are and what needs to be done to address them. It is also important to let this group of people know that you will need to enlist their help to ensure that your loved one receives the best care possible. It may sometimes become necessary to approach a church or synagogue, organization, or home health company within the community to help in providing care.

It is essential to make sure that anyone involved in providing care has all of the information about your loved one that they need. This includes, but is not limited to, their s and diss, dietary restrictions, allergies, list of medications, emergency contact numbers and any others pertinent pieces of information. It is advisable to keep this information in a binder in the care recipient’s home, so that anyone involved in providing care has access to it, especially if someone has to substitute at the last minute. You can also include in this binder, important documents such as a DNR (do not resuscitate order), a living will, a copy of insurance cards or power of attorney papers.

Have a plan in place for emergencies. No matter how well you plan, or how good the system you have in place is, emergencies will happen. Have a section in the binder entitled emergency information. Included in this section should be items such as a list of medications, any pertinent medical information...